5 Reasons To Say Goodbye

Love and relationships is a touchy subject for so many people because they don't want everyone in their business, but they want to vent and get things off their chest. The problem is when you vent to other people they don't let go of those harsh feelings as quickly as you do. When others don't let go they hold you accountable for their feelings, which is not what a listening ear should do, judge. So if you don't want to vent, or put other people in your business, ask yourself if the relationship is worth the situation. Here are 5 reasons to say goodbye to a relationship:

1) Physical Abuse: If you are physically being abused, it doesn't matter what the excuse is, you should leave. There is never a moment when physical domination to another adult is okay and acceptable. The excuses will keep coming and the pain and hurt will continue.

2) Constant Cheating: If your spouse is constantly cheating they are reaching out to get something you aren't providing them, attention, romance, excitement, etc. It isn't your fault because they can come to you and tell you and if things don't work out, you should just leave. Your partner shouldn't take it upon themselves to find happiness by hurting you and possibly putting your life in danger with STD's.

3) Lies: If your spouse is always lying to you about where they're going, who they're with or just lying about anything, you should look into what is really going on. A pathological liar will have you thinking and believing things about yourself and others that isn't true. You have to be careful not to get caught up in their web of lies. You should leave before you are hurt or hurt others based on their lies. Trust is the foundation for a relationship, if you can't trust your partner - you should leave.

4) No longer in love: When you find yourself out of love with someone you should let them go. Don't waste their precious time or yours. Life is short and true love should be a relationship goal. Being with someone who makes you happy and vice versa. You can feel bad and not want to hurt them, but you have to be true to yourself and them. Just go.

5) Financial issues: This is a touchy topic, but financial issues are the top reason that marriages don't work. Someone is making all the money - while the other person isn't picking up slack. Or you both make money, but you can't agree where to spend it. Lastly, you both just don't agree on how to live life financially, for example someone wants to save for vacations, while the other person wants to save for retirement. If you're not on the same page you will constantly fight about money. You can't completely be happy when financially your not secure. If you can't come to an agreement about finances you should leave. There will always be this struggle.

Love and relationships has so many entanglements that you have to digest what is for you. There are certainly other reasons to leave and many reasons to stay and work things out. These are just the tip of the iceberg. If you have someone you want to be with, but these 5 things have happened and continue to happen you have to ask yourself......Is it time to say GOODBYE! So happy to share this with you loving folks. Keep loving & living.

The next blog post you will see will be our goodbye blog posts. I have decided to venture into a different creative side of my life and it will leave very little time for blogging and writing. HOWEVER; please follow A Journalistic View (link below) on Instagram because I will continue to post travel photos, food photos, quotes for love and relationships and personal growth. I want to personally thank you for reading my blogs and being supportive. THANK YOU.